Wednesday, March 30, 2011

EIGHT MONTHS.....AND COUNTING!


WE ARE 8 MONTHS DTE!

Part of me is not excited about this number, as our original wait period was not to be this long.
But another [BIGGER] part of me is EXSTATIC that we are 8 months along!
Because it means we are getting OH.SO.CLOSE. to seeing our little one(s) face(s)!!!!!

We are still #2 for unrelated kiddos.  Number 3 for an infant boy.  Number 4 for siblings.

There is AWESOME movement going on in ET and with AWAA!  Very exciting!  The new agency MOWCYA is ROCKN' IT!  More families have received Court Dates, passed Court, and have received travel dates to go pick up their children!  So, even though movement is slow on the referral front (there are still referrals, but just not from any of the lists we are on), the positive movement and energy is encouraging!

Although we wait with hopeful expectancy to hear this week, we are not carrying the expectation of hearing by Friday.  We are, however, hoping and praying that if we do not get our referral this week, that it will be SOON!  Very Soon!  

I just try to imagine getting THE CALL, and I can't quite picture the reality of it!  To REALLY be discussing the very child or children God has CHOSEN for Jeff and me!  Looking into his or their eyes (Caitlin will send us pics via email).   REALLY!?!?!?  WOW!!!

Well, until that day comes, I will just continue to enjoy dreaming of what it will be like........and listening for that AWAA special ring I recently put on my phone!  HHHMMMMMM.......should I start taking my cell into each treatment with me at work!?!?!?  Or would that feel like I was waiting to watch water boil?!?!???!?   
[smile}

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

BAD NEWS, VACUUM BROKE. GOOD NEWS......

I GOT THIS!




I was vacuuming and my vacuum just up and quit!  Out of nowhere!  I couldn't help but giggle out loud, as it hadn't been too long ago I told Jeff that I knew exactly what vacuum I wanted when our current one died.......I had no idea its departure was just around the bend!

Jeff came in from outside and I assured him I did nothing to break the vacuum on purpose, but that it just went capute!  (is that really a word?  oh well, I use it as one)  Bless his heart, he tried to fix it.  After a few minutes of assessing the situation, he came into the kitchen and said,

"Honey, the bad new is, your vacuum is, indeed, dead.  
The Good news is, however, that 
I guess you get your DYSON!"

Wow.  Never thought I'd be so excited to have a vacuum die!  With our two precious, sweet yellow labs, I've been excited to get the version that is good for animal hair.  I chose the one with the ball because it still has great suction and with the ball, it EASILY gets those hard-to-reach places!  Yes, I am in love with my vacuum!  This version does not have the 3 different carpet levels to choose from......but I don't miss it!  Especially with its other perks!  And its purple to boot!  My favorite color!  {another giggle}

For the record............THE.DYSON.ROCKS!!!!!!!!!

Monday, March 28, 2011

THANKFUL!



OH, MY!  SO MUCH TO BE THANKFUL FOR!  
TOP OF THE LIST IS 
EACH ONE OF YOU!

I cannot THANK YOU enough for your kind words and comments about our nursery in progress!  It was so FUN to have you share in our excitement as the room starts really looking like a nursery!  And I couldn't agree more.....it will be so AMAZING to fill it with our sweet little blessing(s) from Above!!!!

Also on top of the list is being THANKFUL for the class I took at church this weekend, "Walkin' in the Kingdom."  Talk about a POWERFUL class on praying and reaching out to others!  WOW!  The class was Thursday night and all day Saturday.  God SO.MET.ME.IN.THIS.CLASS!!!!  Although I felt I had worked through my days of doubt, I was sort of feeling a sense of "distance" (for lack of a better word), between me and God.  I couldn't really explain it.  Then, a few days before the class, a couple of conversations lead to topics that were driving home to me that God wanted more of me.  He wanted me to draw near to Him.  Remember the verse that says, "Draw near to God and He will draw near to you".......????????.........

BOY, did He ever draw near to me both Thursday and Saturday!  I literally felt Him pouring His love on me.  Filling me with His Spirit.  Cradling me in His arms.  It was a closeness that quenched the deep thirst of my soul.  I needed that re-fueling more than I realized.  Until I experienced such a sweet, powerful and loving presence!  I still feel that peace and love today.  HIS peace and love.

This week is the week we "should" be hearing who are little one(s) are ~ According to the estimated wait for a referral, that is.  We wait with great expectation, yet, if our wait is delayed beyond these 8 months, I am okay with that.  I am in such a place of peace and surrender, that if we are asked to wait longer, I believe I can (well, to an extent, I guess.  Ha!).  

Seriously, the class could not have come at a better time for me!  Here I thought I was taking the class to better equip me to pray for and with others, and God also met me there in my own personal way!  Isn't He just wonderful like that!?


Another thing to be THANKFUL for is our weekend of bonding with friends!  Friday night I was blessed by spending time with my ever precious friend, Wendy.  Then we shared our time in class with our friends Kate and Kyle; Angela and Chad; Terra and Michael!  Such a wonderful group!  Sunday was fun shared with Rick, Connie and Emily at brunch, followed by birthday dinner with Kate and Kyle, and Angela and Chad!  {Can you believe I failed to take on stinkin' pic!?  Yes, I'm sure you can believe it by now.  Ha!}


Finally, we are also THANKFUL for how MOWCYA seems to be ROCKIN' with the multiple cases awaiting their approval!  All of the families that had court dates last week PASSED!  Those adorable kiddos are officially and legally THEIRS!!!  We still continue to pray for those who had court dates previously, who are still waiting for the judges to get to their family case, but we are confident it will happen very SOON!


If all this MOWYCA stuff delays our referral ~ but expedites our wait for Court Date (first time meeting our babe(s) and passing court) ~ I think I can wait on this side of things easier that having a long delay after seeing our babe(s) picture!


Either way.  It's all going to happen when and how it should.  I can say that now, with honesty and utter surrender.  NOT as a robot who hopes to say that enough she will believe it again.  Thank You, God for reminding me of how very much you not only love Jeff and me, but our little one(s) too!  We trust you with our family.  We trust you with our hearts.  Please move BIG this week on behalf of all of your babes in Ethiopia!

Saturday, March 26, 2011

NURSERY....IN PROGRESS!

I was going to wait to post nursery pics until it was complete, but I don't want to wait that long!  We now have the furniture ~ and ALL pieces are the same shade of chocolate!  (there was a mix up and the crib was the "old" chocolate and the dressers were the "new" chocolate.  all fixed now!)  

Jeff painted the room our "ideal" chosen green.  It seemed bold at first, but once we got the furniture in there, WE.LOVED.IT!  What do YOU think of the green?!?!?

We are waiting to decorate the walls.  We want to know for sure if it will be a son, two sons, or a son and a daughter in the room!  We can easily add purple, pink and blues to the wall decor...........can't wait to finalize the wall decor and tie everything together!

Sharing with you a few photos of our "work-in-progress."  My poor photography skills are evident, but they will give you an idea...........

This is as you walk into the nursery.
This pic is the most accurate depiction of the shade of green.


Different perspective of the room.


Okay, so I don't have the built-in shelves organized.  Yet.

Ok.  My poor camera skills make 
the green look like pea green.
Which it is NOT! 

Closer view of the print ~ that isn't hung yet
{stating the obvious, here}

One more view.

Meet LEO the Rocking Lion.
Press his ear and he sweetly ROARS!
{Recognize the diaper bag?!?!}

 The sweet quilt that comes with the bedding.
Aren't the animals just precious!?!?!


Here is the Safari bedding!

 A closer look at the gingham safari sheets.


 Sweet diaper holder!
{nice shadow, too! ha!}

 Frames need pics of cute babe(s)!
Don't ya LOVE the Giraffes?
And the adorable pageboy hat ~
just waiting to be worn by our handsome boy!


 Can't you just picture this on a 
special someone's sweet litte head?!?


This little monkey can't wait for you to come HOME 
and rock with him and mommy or daddy!

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

DIAPER BAG!

Okay, so this post has NOTHING to do with numbers!
NOTHING to do with waiting!
and
EVERYTHING to do with FUN STUFF!

Everyone says that each mama needs to buy her own diaper bag, right?!?!?  Well, I had done a bit of shopping online, and had asked some already-mama friends what they do/do not like about their bags, but I hadn't really landed on THE right one for me.  Yet!

That is, until I received notice that our Baby Daily Store (the one we bought our nursery furniture from) was going out of business.  {SAD face inserted here}  YES, we DO have all of the nursery furniture now ~ and they are all the same chocolate shade (another story for another post......hmmmmmm.....guess what post is next!?).  I meandered on over the first day of their Liquidation Sale "just to see what I could see."

Guess what I found IMMEDIATELY!  Yup!  First thing I saw was.........MY diaper bag!  I hadn't seen it ever before.  I am familiar with OIOI brand, but I must admit it was the PRINT that first snagged my heart!  I think it is just perfect for me and our babe(s) from Africa!  {Of course the 30% off was an added bonus AND the fact that I had a gift certificate that I HAD to spend before they went out of business!}

Don't ya just LOVE it!?!?




 It has all the nice matching amenities:
insulated bottle holder; diaper holder;
 wipes holder; and changing mat!


 Another fun note is that it will match our orange 
BOB Stroller wonderfully!




Okay, so it isn't BIG news.  
But it IS FUN!  
And I need a little FUN in my life right now!  {smile}

Sunday, March 20, 2011

BAD NEWS. GOOD NEWS!

BAD NEWS.  We moved DOWN a number on the infant boy list, to #4.

GOOD NEWS!  Another couple is requesting an infant boy 0-12 mos and their DTE date is 7.23.10 (one week ahead of ours, thus, a drop in our number).

THIS MEANS ANOTHER INFANT BOY IS ABOUT TO BE MATCHED WITH HIS FOREVER FAMILY!  YAY!!!!

I must confess my heart dropped for a BRIEF second, realizing that we were bumped to #4 (recall that we dropped from #2 to #3 when a family ahead of us kept themselves on the sibling list but also openned themselves to either an infant boy or infant girl).  However, when I quickly reminded myself WHY we were being bumped, I was smiling BIG for there was soon going to be one less orphan in this world!

Besides.  I guess God needed this other family to go before us so that we could be perfectly matched with who HE has HAND-PICKED ~ JUST.FOR.US!!!!!!

We are still #2 for unrelated kiddos and #5 for siblings...........

So, I have a little something fun to share.  Stay CALM.  It is only something little.  And cute.

I preface it by saying we are NOT superstitious in ANY manner!  We do not need luck or superstition.  WE HAVE GOD!

Anyway, Friday ~ after Jeff bruising the CRUD out of his calcaneus (heel bone) during our run; and after the trip to the doc to xray his heel and rule out a fracture; and after getting him crutches to use for at least a WEEK ~ Ugh!  He is already tired of them! ~ we stopped to grab a bite to eat.

Although we hold no REAL stock in our fortune cookies, I thought I would share  them with you, as they brought a smile to our faces and made us chuckle........

I opened mine first and it read:
"You will soon bring joy to a family member."


 Then Jeff read his and it said:
"A cheerful letter or message is on its way to you."


Kind of fun.  Praying we receive SOON the message of who our babe(s) are and have the opportunity to send a care package to them to fill him or them with JOY!  {smirk}

This week, may MOWCYA continue to catch up on the 800 letters the previous committee was behind on.  May this week hold a lot of movement for ALL agencies for PASSING COURT (we have 4 families who will pass immediately upon receipt of the MOWYCA letter; and 5 families who attend Court this week!).  May the week also be filled with APPROVED COURT DATES and EMBASSY DATES............as well as REFERRALS!!!!!!  GO, GOD!!!!!

Looking forward to this week with expectancy but not expectations!  {ehhem}

Saturday, March 19, 2011

PHOTO CONSENT

How is THIS for a GREAT start to my weekend!?!?!?

Tara is a dear, sweet, fellow adoptive AWAA mom-friend who is travelling with her husband, Brad, this TUESDAY to meet her son, Jacob, in Ethiopia!  Our DTE dates were close to one another and we had hopes of traveling to ET together.  Well.....they will be LIVING IN ET until they receive Jacob's visa (Embassy Date)!  That means they will be living in Ethiopia for a mimimum of seven weeks!

SOOOOOO..........how does this make my day, besides being giddy excited for her?.............

Well, bless her heart!  She emailed me yesterday, asking if we would want to email her a signed photo consent so that WHEN we find out who our babe(s) are, she and her husband can photo them and email us pics!

WOW, that sets off a butterfly-fest in my tummy just saying that!!!!
In a SUPER GOOD WAY!!!!!  
{sigh}

So, thanks to her kindness and thoughtfulness, not to mention her great foresight and ability to plan ahead ~ we can receive pics as time ticks away between referral and Court Date!  THANK YOU, TARA!!!!!!!!

Hhhhmmmmmmmmmm...........having fun wondering..........dreaming.........letting the butterflies flutter in my tummy!  (maybe that is meant to take the place of feeling our babe(s) kicking in my belly!  LOVIN' it, regardless!)

Friday, March 18, 2011

JORDAN'S DREAM

Here's Jordan.  A sweet son of some great friends of ours,
 Torrie and Josh.

They were over last night.
However, we went to brunch with them a couple of Sundays ago.
Here's the dream he shared with during that brunch.
ABOUT OUR SON!!!!!

He dreamed we "brought home a 3 or 4 year old boy, 
I'm not exactly sure how old he was.
He was a blackbelt.

....And his name was Cole."
(Cole.  great name.  isn't on the list.  maybe it should be!)  {smile}

Well, given that we are on an infant 0-6 month list, and a list for two kiddos in which one is an infant 0-6mos and the other can be anywhere from 0-3+ years...........according to Jordan's dream..........we must be getting TWO precious sons from Ethiopia!

This just happens to coincide with Daddy's dream (a week prior to this brunch), in which Jeff told me upon awakening, that he just had an "AWESOME" dream.........we had gone to pick up our children.....TWO SONS!!!!!!!

I'm not claiming to be a dream interpreter, afterall, if you recall, a month into joining up with AWAA, and putting ourselves on the infant boy list, I dreamed three.nights.in.a.row a vivid dream of our daughter reaching toward us, crying out, "Don't leave me!  Take me with you!  I want to go with you!  Don't leave me!"

It was this dream that moved us to place ourselves on the two children lists!

Interesting how all the dreams revolve around TWO kiddos!  One boy, a boy and a girl, or two boys.....we will be blessed regardless!

Either way, SO FUN to have recent dreams about our little one(s)!  I wonder if this means something is happening to bring him/them another step CLOSER to us, their Mommy and Daddy!  {huge grin inserted here}

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Springtime SNOW!

WOW!  Spring in Idaho is anything but predictable!  Instead of the forecasted RAIN, we got this yesterday!.........

BIG, FLUFFY WHITE SNOWFLAKES!

While most of my patients complained about the snow (I am a physical therapist), I have to admit I welcomed the beauty.  The change.  The unpredicted.  It felt like it was gently braking apart the grayness that had been surrounding my heart ~ and covering the city (it has been raining) the previous days.

Guess what!?!?!?  That is exactly what it did!  We were surprised again today!  By SUNSHINE and BLUE SKIES!  Okay, so I did not get a chance to photograph it, but imagine clear skies with sunshine gently beaming down on ground that has not seen sun in days!  I had the windows open this afternoon, welcoming that precious crisp Spring air into our home, allowing it to bring with it Freshness and Rejuvination!  MMmmmmmmm..........can you just feel the crisp air and smell the freshness of Spring!?

This surprising change in weather seemed to match the positive "sunny" change in direction the MOWA issues seem to be taking........{see yesterday's post}.

May SONSHINE be filling in your heart today as well, my friends!

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

POSITIVE LIGHT IN ETHIOPIA?


For those of you kind enough and caring enough to join us in prayer over the proposed changes in Ethiopia adoptions, I THANK YOU!  In effort to keep you up to date, I want to share with you an email that we received from our caseworker, Caitlin.  Although there is rumor of the proposed 5 letters/day increasing to 20 letters/day, there is still no confirmation of this number.  Here is the letter we received today:

We are writing to update you on the current situation in Ethiopia.  While meetings between Ethiopian government officials continue, we have seen positive steps.  Within MOWA, there have been significant and positive personnel changes which have resulted in overall staff turnover and changes in the adoption unit.  This unit is now called the Ministry of Women, Children and Youth Affairs (MOWCYA).  We are hopeful and expectant that the new leadership will not only support processing an adequate number of favorable recommendation letters, but also implement policies that will best serve the children.  Due to the staffing changes, we anticipate much transition over the next few weeks.  However, we expect that once everyone is settled into their new positions, MOWCYA will work to process a higher number of recommendation letters than they currently are able to process.  

We have continued to receive optimistic feedback and have seen how the Ethiopian government is very committed to adoption.  I hope this information is an encouragement to your family.  We will continue to update your family with any confirmed information we receive.

GO, GOD!  What the enemy meant for evil, may God turn around and make AWESOME!!!!!  THANK YOU, THANK YOU for praying!  May you continue to join us with CONTINUED PRAYER over this issue!  OUR PRAYERS ARE WORKING FOR THE GOOD OF THESE PRECIOUS KIDDOS IN ETHIOPIA!  The meetings continue and the personnel changes are taking place.  PLEASE don't forget to still pray over this!  satan could only HOPE that we would get lax in our prayers over this issue ~ so that he could continue his efforts of stealing, killing, and destroying!

On a side note.  I.JUST.HAVE.TO.SHARE!  I have been awakened every.single.night. between 2-3am our time ~ and actually it changed with the time change and is now 3-4am our time.......I KID YOU NOT!!!!!  I grumbled at first early last week (sunday and monday), unsure as to why I was waking up the same time like that.  This has intermittently happened in the past ~ waking up around the same time in the middle of the night ~ and when it finally registers, I ask God who it is I should be praying for.....He reveals to me someone......and I pray, whether I know that person's need doesn't matter.  God knows.

Needless to say, when I was awakened the second night last week, I quickly recognized this as time to pray over Ethiopia adoption!  So, I did just that!  Every night!  Only to find out later in the week, that several others in our Yahoo Group were ALSO being awakened in this same hour!  No matter what the time zone, we were each being awakened at the time that was noon in Ethiopia!  ISN'T THAT AMAZING!!!!  Only God!

Although we do not know exactly WHY noon in ET is so important, we continue to PRAY with each awakening!  I will fervently pray upon being awakened, as well as MULTIPLE times a day!  Many of us in the AWAA Yahoo Group even signed up for a specific hour that coincided with the work day in Ethiopia!  BOY, THIS ISSUE IS COVERED IN PRAYER!  Please continue to join me!

May God's will continue to OVERPOWER!
It is in HIS existence that I find HOPE!  
To GOD be all the glory!
AMEN.

Monday, March 14, 2011

WELCOME HOME, MEDHANIT!

A moment of BRIGHTNESS to break up the gray and clouds 
~ both physically and metaphorically!


GOD IS SO FAITHFUL!!!!  I was blessed to be amongst the large group of family and friends who welcomed Caycee, her mom and Medhanit HOME FOREVER last Thursday!  What a time of pure joy and celebration!  

Medhanit slept a lot on the plane and was, therefore, rested and alert upon arrival!  Her momma, Caycee, said she kept on asking about Daddy on the flight home!  (Daddy had to stay home after a serious snowboarding accident)  She never left his arms after arriving!  AWESOME! 

The JOY that radiated from this precious girl in her pictures during their Court Date visit was even MORE radiant in person!  God has such incredible plans for this sweet precious daughter of His!
Caycee, Jon, Medhanit 
(low left is part of Porter; low right, Addie)


Daddy and Medhanit


Caycee, Alison, Elicia, Me

I did remember to take our point-and-shoot camera for this grand event (left the big 40D camera home.....had too many other things to carry), only to have this camera DIE after two pre-arrival pics!  And I had JUST put in brand new batteries!  Ugh!  Needless to say, that camera is NOT coming with us to Ethiopia!  {grumble inserted here}  So two of these photos are thanks to Elicia!

Thought you would enjoy living PROOF that God so loves His children!  This whole adoption story is a blessing to Caycee and Jon, Addie and Porter, little Medhanit, and all of us who shared in their family journey!  


 LOVE YOU, GUYS!!!!!



Enjoy getting to know your sweet sister, Addie and Porter!  
Hugs to all you, The Coffield Clan!  
{big BIG smile!}

Sunday, March 13, 2011

Blessings or Burdens?

(First, Scroll to bottom of blog and hit "Pause" button.
Then return to this video and hit the "Play" button.
Worth listening to this ~ all the way to the end!)


Katie Davis says it so well on her blog (click here).
"I live with these human eyes, and with these human eyes of mine I label. I label one thing as good and one thing as bad. I label moments as blessing or burden. And I forget that all this labeling, it is not my right, not my place, not mine to do. To declare what is a gift in my life and what is a curse is to eat from the tree of knowledge of good and evil, to sit in the garden full of abundance and beauty and choose the forbidden. The knowledge of good and evil, that was never intended for me. Could I, like Jja Ja Maria just quit my labeling and say, "Whatever God wants. Whatever HE wants!".....



....."And if every good and perfect gift is from above, and a Good and Beautiful God can create only good and beauty then these moments that I choose to label as loss and suffering, they are really good and beautiful, perfect gifts?".....

......"Suffering, pain, loss, shame – all these things I have blamed on a broken world, Satan even. But can’t a broken world and even Satan only give what God allows? Suffering, pain loss and shame are only these things because I label them as such. Because I, a sinner, choose to eat from the tree, choose to turn away from nail-scarred hands and ignore the grace and miss the gift. He is beautiful and everything He creates is beautiful and if I choose to label it suffering I am choosing to miss the beauty that is freely offered me."


Read her entire post HERE.  It speaks well of where I am today.  Trying to focus on life's Blessings rather than Burdens.

What if our trials in this life are your blessings in disguise, Lord?  Help me no longer try to control things so that they fit within my timeline.  My idea of "right."  Help me NOT doubt you, your Word, nor your Promises, Lord.

I know you hear my plea....if I BELIEVE.  I DO  BELIEVE, Lord.  Please help me in my unbelief or doubt.  I believe YOU ARE STILL IN CONTROL.

I STILL CHOOSE YOU!

Friday, March 11, 2011

Trust In Numbers or God?

So I read one of my daily devotions today, Proverbs 31 Ministries, and I couldn't help but post it here.    Numbers can refer to the number of letters MOWA is willing to write per day.  It can reference our finances ~ whether adopting or not.  It can reference the number of days or months we have been WAITING for our children.  Either way.......this spoke to me and reminded me that God is BIGGER than ANY numbers!


Trust In Numbers - Marybeth Whalen

“Some trust in chariots and some in horses but we trust in the name of the LORD our God.”
Psalm 20:7 (NIV)
Recently my husband and I were discussing our ongoing efforts to build up our emergency fund. A series of setbacks that included car repairs, replacing an HVAC system and my husband’s six month unemployment had left little in our emergency savings. It seemed every time we got a little bit of money in, it went right back out. I voiced my frustration to my husband. “If we could just get a certain amount in there,” I said, “We wouldn’t have to worry anymore.”
The idea of not worrying appealed to me. I wanted something to stay the same. I wanted to be confident and stable. This all sounded like a good idea.
But that’s not what was happening. So what was God trying to teach me?
A few days later I was reading the story of Gideon, the man God called a mighty warrior even as he was hiding out, scared of his enemies. In Judges 7 God finally convinces Gideon to assemble an army of Israelites to face their enemy. I am sure Gideon was pleased and surprised when 32,000 men responded to his battle cry. I imagine the strength of their numbers was a comfort to this less than confident soldier.
And then God told him to cut the army down in size. Then cut it again. God cut the army’s numbers from 32,000 down to just 300. Contrast that with Judges 7:12, where the enemy troops are described as “thick as locusts.” I can only imagine what Gideon was feeling. He had to think that more was better, that surely having a large army to count on was a good idea.
As I read this passage I thought of another time a soldier wanted to know the numbers he was dealing with. First Chronicles 21:1 tells us that King David was enticed by Satan to count his men. He knew that if he could get David’s focus on the numbers instead of on God, he’d gain access to David’s thoughts and trust.
These two biblical examples were a good wakeup call. God was trying to teach me to stop trusting in numbers – specifically in bank account numbers. He was gently reminding me that—as good as an emergency fund is—I can really only trust in Him. I didn’t need to worry about my balance or my battlefield. I only had to believe He would supply all I need.
God calls us mighty, even as we are hiding out. God calls us powerful, even as our forces dwindle. God calls us wealthy, even as we are fretting about finances. God majors in the impossible. He can overpower terrible odds because He’s free to shine His light on our situation. Are your numbers looking grim? Let your lack invite His might.
Don’t trust in numbers that change like the tides. Trust in the unchanging God. Watch Him work against the odds. Just ask Gideon, who won a decisive victory with his 300 men. You can be victorious too, no matter what the numbers say.
Dear Lord, our numbers don’t look good right now. They seem to be stacking up against us with this whole MOWA thing going on. It feels like the Ethiopian adoption world is facing impossible odds. And yet, today I am reminded that YOU ARE STILL IN CONTROL!  No matter what the odds look like.......no matter what the numbers are......we can have HOPE in YOU and YOU ALONE!   Please fan this hope into a flame of complete trust—not in numbers, but in YOU. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.  {modified from the original prayer that accompanied this post}

Thursday, March 10, 2011

HOPE in the Chaos.....

I want to share with you the update that our wonderful agency, America World (AWAA) provided today.  There is HOPE, though many prayers are still needed to cover the continued meetings over this issue!  If you haven't signed the petition yet please see my previous post and click on the link to sign it ~ takes less than one minute to sign!  :)

Updates on Ethiopia Adoption Process

As government officials continue to meet in Ethiopia, please note some of the information currently being provided from the US Department of State as well as the National Council For Adoption regarding the current situation involving MOWA. Yesterday, the US Department of State noted the announcement MOWA made last week on their website. The full article can be found at:http://adoption.state.gov/news/ethiopia_alert.html. Additionally, the NCFA statement issued yesterday evening can be found below.
As noted by NCFA, we are also excited to highlight the positive reports we are hearing regarding meetings in Ethiopia this week and are hopeful they will result in the continuance of a higher number of favorable recommendation letters being written by MOWA for families in the court process. We know God can move mightily and are continuing to trust His hand over the Ethiopian adoption process.  As an additional note of praise, we received favorable recommendation letters from MOWA today that resulted in families successfully passing court.
During this season we would ask for continued prayers for the Ethiopian adoption process.
NCFA Issues Statement Regarding Ethiopia Adoptions
At the end of February 2011, the Ethiopian Ministry of Women, Children and Youth Affairs (MOWA) issued an unexpected directive indicating a dramatic reduction in the number of intercountry adoption cases to be processed by the Ministry.  This directive is scheduled to go into effect by Wednesday, March 10, 2011. 
In 2010, more than 2,500 Ethiopian children were adopted by American families. Should MOWA implement the recent directive as indicated, the number of adoptions from Ethiopia could fall as much as 90%, although the full impact of MOWA’s decision is unknown and cannot be predicted at this time. 
This ruling follows a year of significant progress in improving and increasing transparency in the Ethiopian adoption process.  Following several safeguards enacted last year, NCFA’s confidence in the Ethiopian adoption system has grown significantly. Additional protective measures may still be necessary, however, to increase global confidence in the process. MOWA’s recent decision appears to have surprised many Ethiopian government officials, as well as the Central Adoption Authorities in the U.S., Italy, and Spain.  Many within the adoption community, including the U.S. Department of State (DOS) and the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Service (USCIS), members of Congress, child welfare officials in many countries, and the National Council For Adoption (NCFA), have criticized the MOWA directive as unfair, unnecessary, and harmful to children in Ethiopian orphanages who await permanent families. 
NCFA is grateful for the swift action taken by the U.S. Department of State, led by Special Advisor Ambassador Susan Jacobs, to communicate with Ethiopian adoption officials in an effort to reach a favorable resolution that will serve the best interests of abandoned and orphaned children in Ethiopia.
“We are encouraged by the advocacy taking place behind the scenes and hopeful that these collective efforts will bring clarity and an immediate adjustment to this unjust and unnecessary ruling, which has the potential to negatively impact so many vulnerable children,” said NCFA president and CEO Chuck Johnson.
Unconfirmed reports indicate that personnel changes within MOWA have resulted from the rogue handling of this decision, and because of this, NCFA is hopeful that new leadership will offer opportunities for better communication and a swift resolution to this looming crisis.  NCFA respectfully calls on MOWA to amend its recent harmful directive and ensure that subsequent reforms reflect a comprehensive child welfare policy that retains the option of intercountry adoption for Ethiopian orphans while ensuring policies and procedures that serve the best interests of children.

MOMMY AND DADDY ARE COMING, BABE(S)!  

WE ARE COMING!

May God's POWER continue to be seen in all of this!  I really do not mind being awakened to pray over this issue.  In fact, I am HAPPY to cover this issue with God's power!  I do, however, pray that when I rest my head on my pillow tonight, it will be with a bit of a lighter heart.......STILL PRAYING!!!!!............

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

RUMORS NO MORE

Today the US Department of State has issued an alert for Ethiopia adoptions.  Click here to read this alert.  I have posted the text below:
Government of Ethiopia Plans Major Slow-Down in Adoption Processing
March 9, 2011
Citing the need to work on quality and focus on more important strategic issues, the Government of Ethiopia’s Ministry of Women, Children, and Youth Affairs (MOWCYA) will reduce to a maximum of five the number of adoption cases it processes per day, effective March 10, 2011. Under Ethiopian adoption procedures, MOWCYA approves every match between prospective adoptive parents and an Ethiopian child before that case can be forwarded for a court hearing. The U.S. Embassy is working with Ethiopian government officials and adoption agencies to learn more about this change in procedures. We will continue to share information as it becomes available.

Given MOWCYA's current caseload, the U.S. Embassy anticipates that this change could result in an overall decline in case processing of some 90 percent. If this change is implemented as proposed, we expect, that parents who have begun the process of adopting from Ethiopia but have not yet been matched with a child could experience significant delays. It is not clear if this change in procedures would have any significant impact on cases in which MOWCYA has already approved matches. 



HOW CAN YOU HELP?!?!?


1.  SIGN THE PETITION!  Click HERE and join the more than 13 thousand orphan advocates who have signed this petition in the last 24 hours.  This petition will go to the Prime Minister of Ethiopia, Meles Zenawi.  Feel free to pass this link along to others!  The goal is to have 250,000 signatures by Monday!

2.  CONTINUE (or START) PRAYING!  Not just our child or children, but for ALL of the children in Ethiopia who are without a family!  And for the birth families who have become victims of corrupt practices.  May God find an answer to resolve 


3.  GO TO: Joint Council on International Children Services WEBSITE!   Read the articles under NEWS & UPDATES to remain informed of the latest news regarding this issue.


4.  SHARE!  Pass this information on FACEBOOK, TWITTER, your BLOG!  Help Call to Action your family, friends, church, etc.  Anyone who has a heart for adoption can become an advocate in any of the above ways!


There has been reported evidence in SOME CASES of unscrupulous operators tricking Ethiopian parents to give up their children, then falsifying documents in order claim a part of the large fees involved in inter country adoptions.  My college and fellow adoptive friend, Karen, puts it so well......


"We can point to family after family, and child after child, who have been blessed beyond belief with the gift of adoption.  And yet ... if even one child is taken from their family by force or by trick or by payment, can we justify the trajedy of a few for the benefit of many?  No - we cannot!  Should adoption from Ethiopia come to a screeching halt?  No - definitely not!  So the speculation swirls and the debate rages."

Please join in praying over these children as the meetings to resolve this continue throughout the week(s).  May God protect them from such evil, wicked operators.  May God also help bring them home to the families HE has planned for them to be a part of, from the very beginning!  Please pray for the hearts of families adopting from Ethiopia, as we are.  Families who really only want what is BEST for our own children as well as the other 4 to 5 million orphans in Ethiopia.......to be brought HOME in the most ethical and efficient way possible.  May God's will be done.


Here are a few other sites I trust for updates and perspective:
http://betheanswerforchildren.wordpress.com/
http://blog.beliefnet.com/redletters/2011/03/ethiopia-adoption-cuts-rumors-human-rights.html